interests beyond work

Life, off the clock

Less about optimization, more about showing up. Fewer dashboards, more diapers — and strangely, this phase feels more real than most things I’ve optimized before.

Personal finance

ongoing

A fairly serious interest — borderline unhealthy, depending on who you ask. Gold buff (for emotional stability), dividend chaser (monthly dopamine), and somehow the default insurance advisor for friends and family. Not by qualification, just by persistence.

Swimming & long walks

weekly

Trying to stay active — swimming, long walks, and the occasional dance class at Cult.fit where I look more enthusiastic than coordinated.

The gym, sort of

on & off

An ongoing experiment. We meet occasionally, exchange pleasantries, and then don’t talk for weeks.

Keyboard

still trying

One of those “this is the new skill I’ll master” phases. Still very average, but I enjoy it enough to keep pretending I’ll get good someday.

Languages

attempted

Tried learning Chinese and Tamil. Both attempts ended exactly how most New Year resolutions do.

Toastmasters International

paused

Currently on hold. I’ll be back when the diapers thin out.

Baby duties

now

Most of my time these days — diaper changes, bath time, and long walks with my daughter where she does the observing and I do the thinking.